Origin: a Latin derivative
meaning "Gift of the Earth."
At some point, we’ve all wanted to retract what we just said. Words slip out and, much to our mothers’ chagrin (they did, after all, teach us to think before we spoke), we’re left wishing we had followed their advice. Spoken mistakes can be, and often are, forgotten. Written mistakes, however, have a much longer lifespan.
The written word is held to a higher standard. Unfortunately, we live in a world of increasing speed and higher demand. Thumbs twitch across screens, sending out messages that resemble more a pidgin than English. While such may be acceptable in tweets, texts, and chats, it is frowned upon in other settings. Consider your own assumptions about a person who sends a message filled with abbreviations, acronyms, misspelled or misused words, random capitalization and punctuation that looks like it was applied with a shotgun rather than a keyboard. Are you more or less likely to take that person seriously?
All of these pitfalls, however, can be avoided. Mastering grammar and punctuation takes dedicated study, but you don’t have to be a grammar expert to write effectively. Writing itself is an art that takes a lifetime to master, but you don’t have to be Shakespeare, Hemingway, or Yeats. If nothing else, applying these three rules will help you avoid embarrassing situations.
The 24 Hour Rule states that no message should ever go out without first having a cooling down period, preferably at least 24 hours. In that time, emotions come under control and we’re thinking more clearly. We can look more objectively at what we’re trying to say. Professional authors all observe this rule. Even with books, authors will set aside what they’re writing and come back to it later, sometimes months or even years later. With fresh eyes, they can better judge what they have written, and the same will hold true for you.
As the saying goes, you only have one chance to make a first impression. A poorly written message can sink your boat. Keep these three rules in mind and you’ll avoid most—maybe not all, but at least most—errors that can leave you looking foolish.